TOO MUCH EMPHASIS ON PERFECTION IS FATAL IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP

                                               

TOO MUCH  EMPHASIS ON PERFECTION  IS FATAL IN EVERY  RELATIONSHIP

When we expect perfection ,  we set unrealistic standards which often lead to constant criticism and nitpicking. Perfectionism often  creates resentment and frustration, lack of intimacy and vulnerability, A perfectionist always moves with  fear of  being  judged. A perfectionist keeps himself under constant stress and passes it to everyone around apart from   creating  a  feeling in others that  they're walking on eggshells .

Too much emphasis on perfection can be toxic in a relationship .When we're too focused on being perfect, we can be overly critical, miss the beauty in imperfections  and always forget to enjoy the moment. Perfectionism can lead to anxiety ,stress , a perpetual fear of failure or  mistake or  lack of authenticity. 

A  perfectionist may    develop 'Chaos Personality' often thriving  on drama and impulse  . They can be intense, passionate, and alluring, but  also draining and perpetually passing on stress  . Dealing with them  may become challenging because you  never know what will trigger the next explosion .

Embracing imperfections can foster deeper connections, encourage growth and learning and bring more  happiness while keeping stress away. A survey in an American medical journal pointed out that a good number of couples suffer from hypertension because either of them happens to be a perfectionist .

( Avtar Mota )

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