IN A RELATIONSHIP , COMPARISONS CREATE TOXICITY

                                       

IN A RELATIONSHIP  , COMPARISONS CREATE TOXICITY 

Comparisons can be toxic in relationships.  When we compare our partner to others, it breeds unrealistic expectations and lack of appreciation for individuality. It is to be understood that everyone is unique and incomparable.Comparisons are often  a reflection of our own insecurities. When you compare you get  pain because you are  often focussing on what your partner  lacks rather than appreciating what he has . Comparisons can also stem from  low self-esteem and societal pressure to keep up with others.

Comparison is also a result of observing others. When we observe others, it's easy to fall into the comparison trap . We start thinking, "Why can't we be like them?"  It needs to be borne in mind that comparisons are often based on superficial  viewing or surface viewing . We don't  actually get a glimpse of  behind-the-scenes stuff, the struggles, or the imperfections.

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( Avtar Mota )

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